I feel child support can benefit the children if its going towards the children. Its not going to benefit the children if the mother spend on themselves, getting their hair done and nails done, buying clothes for themselves and not the children. I believe child support should be for the men that choose not to be in the child's life and do not help by any means. But you have some women that will put the father of the child on child support because they don't want to be in relationship with the mother. Its stupid how they will choose to go through the system instead of trying to come up with some kind of arrangement themselves. I say fuck the system. The system don't do anything but break up a family, they will tell the father to just pay child support and don't do nothing for the child or children, but yet women run right to the Friend of the Court. But get this, after the mother put the father on child support, they want to call up the father and ask for money or complain they not doing shit for the child. I need you women to make up your mind about what you want. You want his help or you want to collect money through the system.
I am not trying to offend any woman, but it is what it. They always quick to call a man a deadbeat because he's not there with the children, but he pays child support. A deadbeat is a person that don't pay he or her debt to society. If he's paying child support then he is not a deadbeat he's paying his debt.